HERBISM #32 – Leaders Exercise Wisdom

What is wisdom, why must it be exercised, and why is it important to possess?

Beginning with the end in mind, why is wisdom important? While the way to gain greater wisdom is somewhat mysterious, possessing greater wisdom enables better decision making, better actions, and better outcomes. This suggests that more wisdom is better than less wisdom.

So, what is wisdom, then?

Wisdom is a blend of the following four attributes:

•INSIGHT: the ability to discern inner qualities and relationships;
•JUDGEMENT: good sense;
•BELIEF: conviction of what is true and real;
•KNOWLEDGE: accumulated philosophical and scientific learning.

 

Notice again that three are attributes of the emotional brain (Limbic) and only one is an attribute of the rational brain (Neocortex). In previous posts the role of the limbic brain was presented as being responsible for 75% of our behaviors and actions, 75% of what creates connections with others, along with 75% of what leads to greater trust. This suggests that wisdom is 75% EQ and only 25% IQ.

Wisdom is not something that we are born with, but something that we acquire and refine over time through experience. I believe that is why Abraham Lincoln came to the conclusion that if you want to increase the rate of success you must increase the rate of failure. Each time we attempt an endeavor we gain knowledge [learn something], while expanding and refining our insight, judgement, and belief.

I believe that the thing we call our ‘gut feeling’ is closely related to wisdom and that the exercising of wisdom comes down to how much we listen to and trust our gut feel. I also believe that vulnerability and humility are key elements in determining whether our experiences develop greater wisdom. The more vulnerable and humble we are the more  willing we are to head correction and turn negative feedback into greater insight.

Exercising wisdom suggests that a leader uses acquired knowledge (IQ), while trusting their gut (EQ), along with removing their own selfish motives through humility, and avoiding the lure of ego by maintaining an attitude of transparency, which is only possible when allowing oneself to be vulnerable.

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HERBISM #31 – Leaders Listen

When I on-boarded new staff as a General Manager I would tell them that we are a team and I am as accountable to them as they are to me. I said that if at any time they felt that there was a contradiction between my words and my actions they were encouraged to come and talk to me about it, and even challenge me. I would tell them that in the process one of two things would happen: either I would learn something or they would learn something. Either way we would become more effective as a team, by ensuring our words [understanding] our actions were aligned.

There is a reason why we have two ears and one mouth—the simple principle is to listen twice as much as we speak. Here’s why;

•Speaking engages us; listening engages others.
•Speaking demonstrates how much we know; listening demonstrates how much others know.
•Speaking shows how much we care about ourselves; listening shows how much we care about others.
Leaders understand that greater results can be achieved when people work as a team. No doubt they learned this principle by listening to other leaders who went before them and proved it to be true.
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HERBISM #30 – Leaders Bring Out Greatness

There is an ancient parable about employees who were given varying amounts of money to invest—one was given a single piece of silver, another 5 silver pieces, and the third 10 silver pieces. Each was given an amount commensurate with their ability. The ones that were given 5 and 10 silver pieces invested those amounts and doubled their investment. Their employer praised them for their greatness (being “good and faithful”). The employee who got the single piece of silver did nothing with it and was rebuked [for squandering their potential]. 

Greatness is defined as the quality of being great, distinguished, or eminent. 

Greatness applies to individuals and organizations alike and is a relative term that I believe describes the degree to which we fulfill our potential, regardless of what that potential is. Leaders recognize potential and focus their efforts on bringing out the very best in people and organizations in line with their potential. I see there as being five qualitative levels of potential fulfillment:

  • Poor: does nothing to develop themselves and lives a defeatist life
  • Mediocre: does little to develop themselves and is ok with that
  • Good: develops themselves well, but stops short of their potential
  • Great: develops themselves to achieve their potential (best they can be)
  • Exceptional: develops themselves, achieves theirpotential, and stands out amongst all others (best in a group at the time)

Leaders bring out greatness. Circumstance determines exceptionality.

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HERBISM #29 – Leaders Ensure Focus

I had the opportunity to sit in on a collaboration between a group of staff as they discussed the best way to solve an issue. Each person around the table was highly intelligent and talented in their own right and the group should have been able to solve the issue within a short period of time.

Everybody was passionate as they presented their perspective.

The conversation became increasingly contentious as each person advocated for what impacted them or what they thought was most important. Since the perspectives were not filtered and focused to consider the ultimate goal, the session was not very effective. Instead, the group dispersed with heightened emotions and hard feelings.

What was missing from the session was a singular leader who could focus individual energy toward the common goal.

Best Practice: Don’t try to solve an issue without having the leader/decision maker present. Rather postpone the meeting until they or a designated and  empowered delegate is available to provide necessary leadership [focus].

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HERBISM #28 – Leaders “Swim”

Just because we end up in a different location than where we started doesn’t mean that we had anything to do with the result. True, treading water keeps our noses above water, and allows us to survive, but the results are a function of the current instead of our intentional actions.

In the car business, as well as most other industries, people have mistaken treading water for swimming. That is why when the end of month rolls around they create commentaries (a.k.a. excuses) for why they ended up in a different place than where they said they would 30 days prior.

Leaders swim [take action] and teach their teams to swim, regardless of what the current is doing. When the current is going the right direction the best teams take advantage of it; when it is going the wrong direction they swim against it and give it their best. In this way they guarantee better results than just drifting and more often get to where they intendedto go, or further.

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HERBISM #27 – Leaders are Patriots

At the end of a recent coaching session with the management team of a large dealership, where the focus was teamwork, or lack thereof, the Finance Director came up to me, thanked me for the materials I had shared, and captured the essence of why so many dealerships are dysfunctional and struggle with teamwork, when he said, “we’re all mercenaries.”

I had been contemplating similar thoughts for some time, but he captured the essence of the issue in a simple succinct and insightful statement. Without realizing the profoundness of his statement, nor the response I was about to give, I said without hesitation, “then maybe we need to start hiring more Patriots.” And there it was, the source of the issue, explained in a manner that anybody can understand and relate to, and a solution for those who want to improve teamwork in their stores.

I am almost finished writing an article on mercenaries and patriots in the car business. When it is done I will post it online and it will give more in-depth perspective on the topic. In the meantime, here are a few perspectives of why patriots build better teams and ultimately achieve better and more sustainable results:

  • Patriots don’t tell people what to do. Rather, they lay out a vision, assemble an aligned and accountable team, and lead the team on a journey of mutual sacrifice, celebration, and gain.
  • Patriots focus themselves and their teams on the task at hand and view results as the fruits of their mutual labors.
  • Patriots value people above themselves, recognizing little can be accomplished without a talented and engaged team.
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HERBISM #26 – Leaders Take Responsibility

There are two types of people in this world:

  • Those who take responsibility, own the situation, and act.
  • Those who don’t take responsibility, make excuses, blame others, and expect others to act.

Taking responsibility does not mean that something was or is our fault. It just means that we understand that when faced with an unfavorable situation we can act or wait—we have a choice. Leaders choose to act and enlist the assistance of others to achieve the best possible outcome. Followers, however, wait for others to initiate action and miss the opportunity to make a difference.

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HERBISM #25 – Culture is the Shadow of a Leader

Every organization has a culture. But what is culture? And, why does it matter?

According to BusinessDictionary.com, culture is defined, as: Broadly, social heritage of a group (organized community or society). It is a pattern of responses discovered, developed, or invented during the group’s history of handling problems which arise from interactions among its members, and between them and their environment. These responses are considered the correct way to perceive, feel, think, and act, and are passed on to the new members through immersion and teaching. Culture determines what is acceptable or unacceptable, important or unimportant, right or wrong, workable or unworkable. It encompasses all learned and shared, explicit or tacit, assumptions, beliefs, knowledge, norms, and values, as well as attitudes, behavior, dress, and language.

The question is whether that culture is intentional or accidental in how it shapes a brand and supports individual and team performance.

Research shows that positivity and care are directly correlated with the sustained high performance of people.

Patrick Lencioni, in his book The Advantage, suggests that a healthy organizational [culture] trumps everything else in business. His formula for a healthy culture comes down to how behaviorally and psychologically aligned the leaders, and subsequently the rest of the team, are.

As a leader are you creating a positive and caring culture that is conducive to sustained high performance or allowing behaviors and attitudes that breed a negative culture that detracts from performance?

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HERBISM #24 – Leaders are Obsessed with Preparation

I once heard that legendary college football coach, Tom Osborne, who lead the Nebraska Cornhuskers to three national championships in the 1990s, never told his team to win. Rather, before each game he  told his players to do their best…knowing that he and his assistant coaches had done their best in preparing the team for the game.

I believe that winning is a formula comprising 60% preparation, 25% inspiration, and 15% perspiration. Winning is simply the result. Winning is always just the result.

For players, talking about winning without doing adequate preparation is no different than dreaming. And, since winning is about preparation and not talk, real winners know that talk of winning just distracts from preparation. In fact, too much talk of winning leads to hubris and reduces the perceived need to prepare. Humble people, on the other hand, know that preparation speaks for itself and requires no trash-talk. Real power comes from confidence and real confidence comes from preparation.

For leaders and coaches, talking about winning without ensuring adequate preparation is a combination of incompetence, negligence, and arrogance.

So, be a real leader, obsess about preparation and your team will win more.

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HERBISM #23 – Leaders Focus on Strengths

It has been an ongoing debate as to whether one should focus more time on building strengths or overcoming weaknesses.

The challenge with focusing on weaknesses is that there are so many more weaknesses that our efforts get too spread out to be effective. Concentrating on our strengths, areas that we are naturally good at and areas that we enjoy working on, our efforts can truly make a difference.

Think about anybody who has achieved anything worthwhile in life. They are known for one or two things that they did really well, not all the things they did poorly.

Take Michael Jordan for example. He was a naturally talented basketball player and a less talented baseball player. Even though he was a talented athlete he had strengths when it came to basketball and weaknesses when it came to baseball. He could have spent the rest of his career trying to overcome his baseball weaknesses and we would have missed out on enjoying his strengths on the basketball court. The good news for us is that he chose to focus on his strengths and in the process became the best basketball player of all time.

But even Michael Jordan could not do it all alone. Even on the basketball court he was stronger in some areas more than others. Combined with other talented players focusing on their own strengths the Chicago Bulls became one of the NBA’s greatest dynasties, winning six NBA championships between 1991 and 1998 with two three-peats.

Hence, I believe that greater things can be achieved when imbalanced people focus on their strengths and harmoniously combine with others as a balanced team where all necessary strengths are represented.

The goal is not to be a balanced individual, but to be the best you can be in the areas you have been given talent and to combine with others that have different talents that fill in the gaps of your areas of weakness.

That does not mean that you may simply ignore your weaknesses. The key is to focus on your strengths and only spend time on your weaknesses when they take away from your strengths.

The 80/20 rule is a good way to approach the effort. Focus 80% on strengths and 20% on weaknesses that interfere with your strengths.

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